Women Are Desserts!

If men are interesting creatures, women are fantabulous! They are intricately complex. Men will never understand women because they were sleeping when God created that lovely chick called Eve. lol. Seriously, I love being a woman it is one of the most astounding gift God has given to me. To be able to love pinks and flowers, chocolates and teddy bears, and all that it encompasses. A woman who knows her power has in her hands the key to her own happiness as it was onces said. Something terribly wrong happened and most women are no longer in their right place. We've gone too far from God's original design for the sake of Women's Lib and equality. To live in a man's world and still be a woman is true strenght. The secret lies in our femininity. A feminine woman knows who she is and celebrates her womanhood. It is of utmost importance that we are rooted and grounded in the full understanding of who we are. There is a huge difference between who you think you ought to be and the purpose why God created you. It is time to acknowledge who we truly are and be liberated to enjoy God's original design.

HELPER

The Hebrew word for this is Ezer Kenegdo and yes it means helper or helpmate. The term is always used to describe someone who brings significant help. If help is needed then there is work to do. Submission is required to get things done and this is in line with your calling to be his help meet. You must know your man's vision in order to become his helper. You cannot go into a relationship/marriage with all those silly romantic notions and think that it is all there is. You must first desire how you can compliment your man. Romance should not be your ultimate purpose. Personally, I think romance is God's gift for the moment, something that glues two people together that they may become one. The euphoria or the romantic stage which is considered as an exaggerated physical and psychological state cannot last forever because there is work to do and real life needs a sound mind to get it all together.

INFLUENCE

To compliment rather than compete, to inspire rather than challenge, to influence rather than provoke. This is a gift that God built inside every woman. Wisdom is often referred to as a she in the bible. Influence gone wrong becomes manipulation. I doubt it if you like me calling you a Jezebel spirit. We all know how her story ended and how the prophet Elijah ran from her. A woman is a force to be reckoned with.

She's Always A Woman

She can kill with a smile
She can wound with her eyes
She can ruin your faith with her casual lies
And she only reveals what she wants you to see
She hides like a child,
But she's always a woman to me -Billy Joel

When God created you, you were not roughy made from dust, God fashioned you into a woman. You were taken and built from Adam's rib, fine and delicate. Anything that is built is built for a purpose. Every woman is uniquely built to fit an Adam's rib. I know there is a lot of argument on this but when God created Adam, He did not present him Ellen, Sue or Martha. You do not need to be someone you're not.

INCUBATOR

Every woman's body is designed as an incubator. You give her a sperm, she gives you a baby. An incubator does not keep anything this why a woman is a giver. She is a nurturer of life. Mother Nature is even called mother. She is the completion of the cycle of life. So woman, do not take for granted the purpose in which God has created you. A man cannot be completely happy without a woman. (wink) It is not good for man to be alone, God said so. He caused Adam to sleep and presented him with a gift and he called her woman.

On this note, wait upon God for your man. You must be completely soaked in the love of God before He present you to your Adam. Be the gift that you are in his life by allowing God to cultivate you. Your Adam might still be sleeping at the moment while God is molding you, fashioning you to be the woman that He created you to be. God does not present a half-baked cookie to His children. Be confident in the love of your Father and find that contentment in His love. True power lies in strength under control. This has a lot to do with submitting to the lordship of Christ, waiting upon Him and trusting the Lord. I am like you, I do not like waiting but if waiting means becoming the perfect gift to that man's life then shouldn't it be all worth it?

There is nothing more fascinating than to be wooed by a man. I've always said in my previous hubs that a man will cross the pacific ocean to let you know how he feels about you. You don't have to decipher his actions and get ahead of him. Let him be. Wouldn't it be so fascinating to feel so womanly when he whispers, "I can't live without you, baby?" :)

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